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Support Systems Matter: How Two Lines Helps You Build Your Village

Experiencing an unexpected pregnancy can be a scary, isolating experience. Life is suddenly full of uncertainties, questions, and decisions that need to be made without a lot of information to help make them. Without a solid support system in place, it can feel almost impossible.

That’s why Two Lines Pregnancy Clinic helps clients through their pregnancy and beyond—they want to see families thrive. By helping mothers and families establish a support system for themselves apart from Two Lines, they set families up for long-term success both practically and emotionally. 

We sat down with Daniel Nichols, Education Manager at Two Lines Pregnancy Clinic, to talk about what a good support system looks like, why it’s important, and how Two Lines can help.

What is your role at Two Lines?

Daniel: As Education Manager, I supervise a few different education programs that we offer. One is through our clinic for clients who are going through pregnancy for the first time. Pregnancy involves a lot of changes, and there’s a lot to brace yourself for and a lot to learn. We’re there to walk with moms and dads through their first pregnancy.

Our flagship parenting class is called Connections, a two-year program for clients who are expecting a baby or who have just had their baby. We meet once a week, talk about life skills, and connect them with each other and community resources.

Why is it important for Two Lines clients to develop a network of support?

There’s an old adage—it takes a village to raise a child. I personally have two young kids, and I can’t imagine raising them and being isolated or alone. Having people around who know you, can talk to you, make you feel normal—that’s really valuable.

A lot of women come to us feeling very isolated. They have very little support in their life, and so we want to help them build that support as much as possible. Those early years are very important. There’s a lot of learning and a lot of life that happens in that really short window of time. People need to feel like they’re supported, like they have a plan and people they can turn to for the questions they’ll face as parents.

How does Two Lines’ Connections class offer this kind of support to clients?

It’s very purposely called Connections, because that’s our goal in a lot of ways. First and foremost, we want to help people connect with the Lord. Connections isn’t a Bible study, but we believe strongly that the Bible offers helpful, wise advice and tools to help raise kids. 

We also want to help people connect with each other. For young moms and dads, it goes a long way just knowing there are other people around them in a similar position going through the same things. We create space for them to connect with each other so they can talk, share tips, and be honest about the struggles of that stage of life. They become a resource to each other. It’s awesome to see the friendships that develop over the course of the class.

Finally, we want to connect them to people in the community. We’ll bring in guest speakers as often as we can to teach a class related to their background. These could be people who are either professionals or who are just really skilled in a certain area, like finances, tax prep, nutrition, meal planning, parenting styles, personal emotional regulation, and more. These people often become known resources for the clients, so they know after they leave our program that they have a connection to someone if a question comes up in a certain area.

What is the goal for clients after their two years in Connections is finished?

The maximum amount of time we’ll be with a client is about three years, and that’s if they come to us near the start of their pregnancy and complete two years in the Connections class. Those are really important years, but really it’s a very small window of time in the grand scheme of things.

In Connections, we want to do everything we can to equip these parents with some of the skills they might need. We want you to feel like you’re doing something well for your family—that you have a plan and that you’re prepared for some of the things that your kids may go through. Even something as simple as potty training—that has to happen at some point, and there are a surprising number of layers to it. We want to equip people with as many tools and resources as possible when we have them.

Right here at the start when so much learning happens, we want to set them up for success as much as we can. And a big part of that success is having people around you—people you know, people you can call, someone to answer questions, someone who will be there when you’re in need. Both having a supportive village around you and experts you can call when you need help—that’s just so important.

Aside from family and friends, who should be a part of this network of support?

It’s definitely important to know about local professional resources—even for practical things like car repair, finances, taxes. But it’s also important to take care of your mental health. We have some counseling services that we’ve been able to point clients towards. Whether it be marriage counseling or personal counseling, having someone you can trust is so valuable. Even these days, there can be a stigma around needing to go to counseling or therapy. We want to normalize the idea of having someone to talk to.

We also talk with our clients in the education programs about medical resources and providers. Pediatricians, specialists, speech language professionals—we share resources with them so if they encounter something in their child’s life, they’ll know where to look.

We also encourage connecting with a local church and can help clients get connected there.  There are a lot of churches in the area that are really great for growing families, and many of them offer resources and opportunities for further help on parenting, growing friendships, and maturing as an individual in this season of life.

How else does Two Lines help clients build their village?

Our social workers make such a difference in our clients’ lives. We have two social workers, and every one of our clients is eligible to continue meeting a social worker after their baby is born. They do a lot of help building that network.

Our social workers have helped families in really hard situations. Single moms who didn’t have much money but needed a safe place to stay. Families with multiple children who were in danger of being evicted because they couldn’t afford rent. Our social workers are very well connected with places in the community who can help our clients—especially those experiencing times of high need.

Are there resources available for Spanish-speaking clients?

Yes! One of our social workers speaks Spanish, and we offer a Connections class specifically for Spanish-speaking families as well. We understand that the unique needs of families who speak Spanish go beyond just language, so we’ll bring in people to speak to those needs as well—things like immigration issues, documentation issues, and navigating medical care.

What advice would you give someone experiencing an unexpected pregnancy in building this kind of support network?

Don’t be afraid to ask for help. At this stage, it’s so important to ask for help if you need it. So, be willing to put yourself out there, be vulnerable if you’re struggling—for the sake of your child. You can’t let the insecurity of asking for help keep you from doing that, for the sake of your kid.

Also, ask questions. As a parent, you have a responsibility to be involved and to learn, and not to abdicate responsibility to people. More than anyone else in this world, you are going to have the best interests of your child at heart. You can delegate responsibility for your kid’s medical care, developmental milestones and things like that, but don’t abdicate it to just anyone. You are your child’s biggest cheerleader, biggest advocate, but also biggest protector.

Finally, put yourself out there. Especially in a digital world, there’s a hesitancy to reach out and build connections with other people, but it’s so important to build relationships. It’s easier to just sit back and be passive about it, but stepping out to build the kind of social environment you need is so worth it. And reach out to us—we can help!

If you or someone you know is experiencing an unexpected pregnancy, or if you’ve just had a baby, Two Lines Pregnancy Clinic can help you build the support system you need for your family. Explore our website or schedule an appointment today to learn more about the help and resources available at Two Lines.

One Step at a Time: How Taylor Helped Her Friend Through an Unexpected Pregnancy

Taylor is willingly giving us permission to share her story so that others can realize there is hope in the midst of a difficult situation. All client experiences with Two Lines Pregnancy Clinic are kept with the highest confidence. The stories that are shared come from the real-life experiences that our clients, staff, and volunteers had during their unplanned pregnancy.

Her name has been changed but her story is true.

When Taylor found out she was pregnant, she was scared and didn’t know what to do. She was in college, unsure about her finances, and afraid to tell her parents. She remembered that there were places like Two Lines that existed, which was called Advice & Aid Pregnancy Centers at the time. “I mainly wanted to confirm the pregnancy because I had been taking the regular stick pregnancy test and the two that I took, the lines were super faint,” says Taylor. “I also wanted to go somewhere that was open to listening to my situation and everything that I had going on.”.”

That search for clarity led Taylor to Two Lines Pregnancy Clinic. And what she found there changed how she viewed support, not only for herself, but later, for a friend who would walk a similar road.

Finding Calm in the Chaos

Taylor brought her boyfriend to her appointment. “I was nervous and anxious,” she says. “It was nice to have a support person with me. And I think it was nice for him to also talk to someone about it.”

Inside, she met Tiffany—a staff member whose warmth immediately put her at ease.

“She was so nonjudgmental,” Taylor recalls. “I hadn’t made a decision yet, and she didn’t pressure me or judge me for my feelings. She just listened and helped me think through what was going on.”

Taylor says,

“Tiffany helped me apply for WIC and Medicaid. Some of those logistical things really helped me calm down because I’m just a very avid planner and that was not part of my plan and I was kind of freaking out. I felt better leaving. I didn’t feel 100% perfect like my world was fixed, but I felt like I had taken a step in the right direction.”

She didn’t have all the answers that day, but she left with something even more valuable: hope.

Becoming the Friend She Once Needed

Sometime later, Taylor found herself in a new role—the encourager. A friend of hers became pregnant unexpectedly. “I think she was in a little bit of denial about it ,” Taylor explains. “Like, even after she knew that she was pregnant. So I was like, ‘let’s make this more real for you. Come verify it and then we’ll go from there’. I wanted to point her in the direction of people more professional who could give her better advice than I could.”

Her friend didn’t have a car, and Taylor didn’t hesitate. “I offered to take her to the appointment.”

Taylor’s response is an example of steady love: helping her friend take the next step by offering to drive and be a present support at her appointment.

Listening Before Speaking

Taylor’s approach mirrors the heart of Two Lines’ work. When her friend came to her, Taylor made a conscious choice not to lecture.

“There’s just kind of this idea like, ‘yeah, it’s my decision don’t tell me what to do.’ So it was a very gentle line for me like, I’m just gonna listen.”

That kind of friendship makes all the difference. At Two Lines, our staff see it every day, a caring friend or partner who listens without judgment can be the reason someone feels safe enough to slow down and think clearly before making a life-altering decision.

If your friend is considering abortion, that’s where your role matters most: being a calm presence in her storm, pointing her toward professionalhelp, and reminding her that she’s not alone.

The Power of the First Step

When asked what she’d tell someone else who just found out she’s pregnant, Taylor said:

“I would tell them to take a breath. And there’s a lot more support than you think… My main advice would be just take the first step. And like for me, Two Lines helped me set a plan. I know I’ve said that so many times, but that was instrumental to me to have an idea of what my next steps were and to know that it’s possible to get through. It’s not the end of the world. Someone told me that if I got pregnant that I’d be ruining my life basically and that stuck with me. And so when I got pregnant I was like, ‘well, shoot my life’s over.’ But it’s not. It’s okay.”

Her story is a powerful reminder that sometimes the greatest act of momentum in the right direction begins with taking that first step toward real help or, simply helping someone else take that step.

At Two Lines Pregnancy Clinic, that’s exactly what we’re here for, helping women take that first step toward calm, clarity, and care. Our licensed medical team provides free pregnancy testing, ultrasounds, and compassionate consultations so that every woman can make an informed choice, not a pressured one.

If Your Friend is Facing an Unexpected Pregnancy

You don’t have to be an expert to be a good friend.

Just like Taylor, you can:

  • Listen without judgment.
  • Offer practical help—like a ride to her appointment.
  • Encourage her to slow down and get accurate medical information.
  • Connect her to professionals who will care for her without pressure.

When you help your friend reach out to Two Lines, you’re helping her find real support: people who see beyond the test, beyond the fear, and into a future filled with possibility. Because when you’re loved unexpectedly, you may just love unexpectedly in return.

If your friend is facing an unexpected pregnancy or considering abortion, the most important thing you can do is help her connect to real support. At Two Lines Pregnancy Clinic, we provide free pregnancy testing, ultrasounds, and confidential appointments—always with compassion and without judgment. Visit our Friends Page to learn how you can walk with her or encourage her to schedule a free appointment.

Two Lines Pregnancy Clinic: Real Lives, Real Impact

Two Lines Pregnancy Clinic has been serving the Kansas City area for 43 years, assisting hundreds of women facing unplanned pregnancies—each with a unique story—and helping them navigate moments they never imagined they’d find themselves in with honesty and confidentiality. 

“The mission of Two Lines Pregnancy Clinic is to provide Christ-like compassion and support to women and their families,” says Andrea C., RN, Clinic Director. “We’ve been here for 43 years, with lots of history and growth as a part of the community.”

Read on to learn about Two Lines’ long-standing history, and about their commitment to continue providing quality care as a trusted partner for expecting mothers in KC.

The Numbers at a Glance

In 2024, Two Lines Pregnancy Clinic served nearly 800 women and their families, and so far in 2025, they have served over 600 women. “We’ve seen a lot of people in all different situations, so nothing a woman brings to us is going to shock us,” Andrea says. “We’re prepared for whatever situations come up, because we have experience handling even the most obscure situations.”

About half of Two Lines’ clients bring a male partner to appointments, which means Two Lines serves a range of 300-400 men each year. “We look to support whole families,” says Andrea. “We want to help with barriers that exist. Unexpected pregnancy affects a woman and her family, so we aim to make the situation better for all of them. That wraparound care for the whole family is so important to us.”

Pregnancy tests are the most frequently requested service, and many women arrive looking for sonograms as well. No matter what needs or questions they have, they can find answers at Two Lines. “A lot of women come looking for ‘basic’ answers to help them determine where to even start making their decision,” Andrea says. 

More than a third of Two Lines clients are from minority communities. Support is available in both Spanish and English, creating an environment where women of all backgrounds can feel supported, cared for, and loved.

The biggest source of referrals comes through word of mouth from previous clients, many of whom also return for care, which speaks to the trust and satisfaction they’ve experienced at Two Lines Pregnancy Clinic. “To me, that shows that they trust us,” Andrea says. “Even if they have an abortion, they come back to us—that tells us that they know we’re not judging them.”

Beyond the Numbers

Numbers don’t tell the whole story. Every single woman who walks through the doors at Two Lines Pregnancy Clinic is on a journey that’s all her own.

“A woman came to us as a walk-in,” Andrea says. “She had an appointment at an abortion clinic, but she came to see us first. We discovered that she had an ectopic pregnancy, which means there was a baby in her fallopian tube with a heartbeat. And it was on the verge of rupturing. So we sent her to the emergency room. She called us back and told us that the doctors told her it was a medical emergency and she needed surgery immediately.”

This story is one of many examples of the life-changing, life-saving work God is doing through Two Lines Pregnancy Clinic. “It was a total God thing,” Andrea says. “He literally saved this girl’s life by sending her here.”

Meeting You Where You Are

Women often walk into Two Lines cautious and guarded.  “Many women think we are going to judge them,” Andrea says. “They’ve heard a lot about pregnancy centers. Others around them might be judging them for their past decisions or their future decisions. They are afraid that we might even judge them just for being pregnant.”

Two Lines understands the importance of confidentiality, trust, and judgment-free care. Here’s what every woman who enters Two Lines can expect:

  • In every conversation, clients will be met with compassion and care, not judgment or shame.
  • Every client will receive professional medical care from licensed nurses and sonographers. As a medical clinic, Two Lines serves clients’ needs and connects them with a doctor or more specialized care, as needed.
  • All of Two Lines’ services are free. No matter what choice a client makes, each pays the same: nothing. This allows Two Lines to offer professional, honest advice without being motivated by cost.
  • All client information is completely confidential.

No matter your situation, women who walk into Two Lines can expect to hear the truth. “We’re committed to truth with grace and love,” Andrea says. “There’s truth women need to hear about themselves and their inherent value, and also about their health and what’s going on with their bodies. There’s truth about how their decision is going to affect the rest of their life, no matter what they decide.”

Take Your Next Step

The team at Two Lines is committed to serving women and their families. “I love watching our team,” Andrea says. “They’re professional, but they’re also compassionate and kind. They listen. They’re just there for the women we work with, and it’s beautiful to watch.”

If you’d like to be a part of Two Lines’ mission, you can support Two Lines Pregnancy Clinic by making a donation. Donor support makes it possible for the clinic to continue providing free care. 

And if you or someone you know is experiencing an unexpected pregnancy, reach out today to schedule an appointment. Two Lines is ready to walk beside you, no matter where your journey may lead. No judgment, no shame, only care.

Everything You Need to Know About Your First Visit at Two Lines

Experiencing an unexpected pregnancy can bring feelings of fear, anxiety, and confusion. But your first visit to Two Lines Pregnancy Clinic doesn’t have to feel the same way. Our team is ready to meet you right where you are—no judgment, no pressure, just unwavering support and care. And it starts from the very first moment you walk through our doors.

Read on to learn exactly what to expect, from the moment you decide to walk in to the end of your first appointment.

Making Your Appointment

Scheduling an appointment at Two Lines is simple. You can request an appointment on our website, where you’ll provide some basic information and select an available appointment time (which we’ll contact you to confirm). Or, you can schedule with us over the phone at 913-962-0200.

While scheduled appointments are helpful, they are not required. We welcome same-day walk-in appointments during business hours—if that’s more convenient for you, you are more than welcome!

We have support for both English- and Spanish-speakers at Two Lines. And appointments are always 100% private and confidential, regardless of age. If you are a minor, you can come in for a visit on your own. All your information will remain confidential.

Arriving at Two Lines

When you arrive at Two Lines Pregnancy Clinic, you’ll be greeted at our front desk by a welcoming receptionist. During check-in, there are a few forms to fill out. We’ll ask for information like the following:

  • Contact information
  • Medical history, including gynecological history, history of cycles and regularity. (It’s very helpful if you know the start date of your most recent cycle.)
  • Pregnancy history
  • What services you’re looking for—pregnancy confirmation, sonogram, STI or STD testing, abortion information, or other services

The amount of time this takes can vary, but typically it will take about 10 minutes to check in. 

When you’re done checking in, with your consent, we’ll take a photo of you for our computer records. This photo is for internal clinic purposes only and will remain confidential, as will all the rest of your information.

Meeting with Your Client Advocate

Once your check-in is complete, a female Client Advocate will walk you back to the clinic area, a private space where you can share about your situation. A Client Advocate is someone who ensures that you receive the support, information, and resources you need. They are also available to answer any questions you may have. This initial meeting with the Client Advocate is one-on-one, with the intent of giving you the time and space you need to share openly and comfortably. If you’ve brought a support person along, they are welcome to wait in our lobby until they are invited to join you.

If your support person is the father of the baby, he will have the option of meeting with a male Client Advocate while you’re in your one-on-one meeting. This isn’t required, but it’s always available. Male Client Advocates offer support, information, and resources to men who visit Two Lines, just as the female Client Advocates do for women.  It is our goal to set both of you up for success, no matter what comes next.

We typically recommend that a pregnancy test and an STI/STD screening be done during your appointment. All testing will be done by a nurse, and nothing will be done without your consent. Education and materials will be provided to help you understand the results of all tests administered. 

Your Ultrasound

If your pregnancy test is positive and you’re eligible, an ultrasound is the next step. Ultrasounds at Two Lines are free of charge (as are all our services), and your support person is welcome to join you in the ultrasound room if you want.

During your ultrasound, you’ll receive solid medical information from your nurse and sonographer about what they’re seeing in the ultrasound. You’ll receive an explanation of what the ultrasound is showing, and they’ll be available to answer any questions you may have.

Take Your First Step

Every person who walks through our doors is a unique individual with a unique story. But because we’ve helped so many women at Two Lines Pregnancy Clinic, there’s a good chance that we’ve helped someone else in a situation similar to yours. We have the experience to come alongside you, guide you in areas where you feel uncertain, and remind you that you’re not alone.
If you’re ready to take your first step, we’re ready to meet you exactly where you are, with no judgment, only compassion and care. Head to our website to schedule your appointment today.

Navigating the Emotions of an Unexpected Pregnancy

When a woman first sees the two lines appear on a pregnancy test, time can feel like it suddenly stops. In an instant, emotions swell into fear and sometimes even panic. An unexpected pregnancy can be an emotional storm. It’s messy. It’s scary. It feels impossible. 

But these emotions don’t have to be the whole story. With the right care and support, a woman can move from being overwhelmed to being equipped to take her next step with assurance. 

Fear: How will I handle this?

Fear often comes first. Thoughts spiral: What about school? My job? My parents? How can I afford this? Fear convinces women they don’t have the strength or resources to move forward. It thrives in the unknown.

One way to begin quieting fear is to face it directly. Naming your fears—whether by writing them down, saying them out loud, or talking them through with someone safe—can help untangle what feels overwhelming. When you identify your greatest concerns, you can separate fear’s voice from the truth and begin asking: What are the actual facts here?

You need to meet fear with facts. When women learn the truth about their options and understand what support is available, fear begins to lose its grip. Knowledge brings clarity, and clarity opens the door to hope. The question shifts from “Can I handle this?” to the reassurance of “I don’t have to handle this alone.”

Shock: This can’t be happening.

Shock creates paralysis. A woman may feel detached from the news. It can almost feel like it isn’t real. Denial and disbelief can delay decisions or push her toward rash ones.

In moments like this, it can help to think of one safe person in your life you could confide in—a close friend, a sibling, a parent, or even the father of the baby. Sharing what you’re going through can lift some of the weight and remind you that you don’t have to carry this alone. And if you feel like there’s no one you can turn to, know there are people who are ready to listen and walk with you. At Two Lines Pregnancy Clinic, you’ll find caring staff who provide a safe place to be heard and supported every step of the way.

Shock can leave you feeling stuck, unsure of how to move forward. The truth is, you don’t need all the answers right away. Taking one step at a time, with the support of trusted people and the care available on our team, you can begin to move forward with clarity and confidence.

Isolation: I feel so alone.

Isolation magnifies every other emotion. Even in the middle of a crowded room, a woman may feel like no one could possibly understand. When she feels unsupported, decisions often get made quickly, quietly, and with regret.

Fear in these moments can feel overwhelming, but fear does not always tell the truth. Yes—it is scary. Yes—the questions are heavy. But you are not alone. Many women who once felt isolated have discovered care and support at local pregnancy centers, where their concerns are listened to and their questions are taken seriously. Because so many have walked this road before, there are trusted people and safe places ready to support you towards a clearer view of what’s next.

At Two Lines, help goes beyond medical care. Women are invited into parenting classes, connected with community programs, and paired with mentors who have walked through similar experiences. Even partners, parents, and friends can learn how to give meaningful support. In these spaces, isolation begins to break. Surrounded by encouragement and equipped with resources, loneliness gives way to belonging, and hope takes root.

Panic: I have to decide right now.

Panic demands urgency. It whispers that a choice has to be made today, before there’s even time to think. But panic-driven decisions rarely bring peace.

In moments like this, slowing down to gather the truth can be refreshing. Many women don’t realize how many questions are worth asking—about their health, the procedures they’re considering, and the long-term impact of each choice. Take the time to get informed and understand  every pregnancy option. Because when a woman knows the full picture, she’s able to choose with clarity rather than confusion.

And even after a decision, women need a safe place for physical and emotional care. You can find that steady ground at Two Lines Pregnancy Clinic, where ongoing support is available to walk with you in every step ahead.

Finding Calm in the Unexpected

Fear, shock, isolation, and panic are natural responses, but they don’t have to dictate the future. At Two Lines, we meet women in the swirl of emotions and walk with them toward calm, clarity, and hope. Through professional medical services, personalized guidance, and an unshakable commitment to love, we provide the unexpected care every woman deserves. If you or someone you know is facing an unexpected pregnancy, we’re here to walk alongside you. Whether it’s for yourself, a friend, or a partner, you can find the right support at Two Lines.

19 and Pregnant: Finding Hope in an Unexpected Journey

“I am telling my story today with the hope that it will encourage the woman who is pregnant unexpectedly, and maybe even afraid to admit that she is scared. You are not alone, and you are capable of much more than you think.

A Turn of Events

When I was 19 years old, I had a boyfriend. I was going to community college and working to save money to go on to a university. I was very happy.

Then the day came when I knew things were about to change dramatically. A missed cycle or two and I knew I had to get tested. But we didn’t have those handy drugstore pregnancy tests like you have today where you can know in a few minutes. I had to take a sample to the local health department and wait for a few days.

I returned later with my boyfriend. The results were positive. I was pregnant. We looked at each other with fear and through desperate tears we thought: ‘Now what?!

Shame overwhelmed me. Not of the baby, not even of the future, but of what people would think of me. What would my parents say? I was their daughter—their good daughter. The one in college, staying at home, doing the “right” things. I knew they loved me, but I also knew this news would hurt them. I wasn’t married and I wasn’t ready to be married. I was also afraid of the disappointment and shame I would bring to my family.

My boyfriend and I were both from big Irish Catholic families. This meant that there were certain lines you did not cross. We had crossed a big one. So together, our greatest fear was having to tell our parents.

Sharing the News

It was the week before Christmas when we learned I was pregnant, so we were determined to keep the news a secret until after the holiday. In the meantime, my boyfriend and I talked about getting married because it seemed like the right thing to do. We both knew that deep down, neither of us were ready for marriage, let alone children. However, we entertained the thought that maybe we could figure it out.

The holiday passed, and we chose to deliver the news to his parents first. His mother cried, and his father stated that they were not in support of us getting married.

We went on to tell my parents. My voice shook as I spoke while sitting before them. I braced myself for their response, expecting to receive anger, yelling, and expressions of rejection. But that’s not what happened. Yes, they were shocked. Yes, they were hurt and disappointed, just as I had feared. But underneath all of that, they were still my parents. The ones who had raised me, protected me, and loved me no matter what. They leaned in, not with judgment or readiness to inflict punishment, but with loving kindness and unwavering support.

The Maternity Home

As I considered the future, it was evident that marriage was not an option for me at the time, and I wasn’t able to support and care for a child. However, I wanted my baby to have a family. So, I decided that I would pursue adoption.

While pregnant, my family and I learned that there was a maternity home two hours away called Seaton House. It was a home for unwed mothers that took care of young women in my situation. I thought it sounded like a good idea.

My experience at the maternity home was wonderful.  It was a cross between a sorority house and a convent.

The Sisters were of an order called The Daughters of Charity, and they treated us with kindness, respect, and dignity. The other girls in the home and I became family through sharing stories, offering support to one another, and dreaming together of the futures we each hoped to build. We also learned to knit and crochet, and we were able to make a blanket to give to our newborns.

Some mothers were choosing to keep their babies, while others like myself were planning to place their babies for adoption. There was never pressure from the nuns toward us to make any one decision.

Hope for a Future

My personal story of unexpected pregnancy and the love and support I received is why I am now a volunteer at Two Lines Pregnancy Clinic. I want other women to know the kind of love and support that I experienced when I was facing uncertainty. No matter what your age, no matter what your circumstances, support is available to help you through even the darkest and scariest of times.

I don’t regret my child or my choice to place for adoption. I never have. Today, I’m 72 years old, and looking back at the challenges I faced at 19 years old and seeing the concerns women face today, I want more young women to know that being scared doesn’t make you weak. Being hopeful is brave. It’s okay to cry and to ask for help.

Throughout my journey, I can look back and see God’s handprints all over my story, from the support of family and friends early on to His providing me with the courage to place my beautiful son for adoption. Then later on, to bless me with a wonderful husband and four beautiful daughters. I also had the blessing of not worrying about or longing for my son, because I trusted God that he was in good hands. 

The most profound blessing of all came last Christmas, when a 52-year-old man called and said he thought he might be my son. Yes, it was him! All the pieces had finally come together. He is happy, healthy, and prosperous. He has a beautiful family and a great career. My joy is complete.

His parents are still living. I would love to meet them and thank them for giving my boy the wonderful life that I could not.”


If you’re reading this and wondering if abortion is your only choice, we want to encourage you to pause. Take a breath. There is time and space to think about your future and your baby’s. There are people who will walk alongside you without judgment, offering real support and practical help.Two Lines Pregnancy Clinic is a medical facility for women and families facing an unexpected pregnancy. In addition to providing free pregnancy tests, ultrasounds and STI testing and treatment, care managers walk alongside clients and connect them with resources specific to their needs, including adoption agencies. Contact us today to schedule a free appointment. You are not alone—we’re with you.